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Wednesday May 21, 2008

Are You More Asian or Are You More American?

Cubicle Man

I read this interesting article recently, titled Koreans Have Beef with Korean Americans. It was about how South Korea recently resumed the importation of American beef after a moratorium placed a halt on all U.S. beef imports due to mad cow fears. Over the past few weeks, however, there has been a furor of public protest in South Korea, decrying the resumption of the imports, calling into question the actual safety of American beef. The contentiousness was further fueled by the backstabbing many South Koreans alleged of their Korean brethren in the U.S., as the majority of Korean Americans chose to side with America over the issue.

One part of the article that made me somewhat reevaluate my dual identity as an Asian and an American was this one:

“Proving its position as the most wired country in the world, Korean cyberspace has crackled with South Koreans’ disappointment towards the immigrants. They accuse Korean Americans for not standing up for Korea, or worse – of being a lapdog of the American government. One reader of JoongAng Ilbo, a major daily newspaper in South Korea, wrote in the comment section, ‘Korean Americans are those who would aim guns at us if Korea goes to war against the United States.’”

Pause.

Though I am not a U.S. citizen, I feel as though I am one, as I’ve called America home from the time I was barely a one year-old. And for any 1.5 and 2nd generation Asian American who grew up under the roof of those “traditional Asian parents,” who were fanatical about preserving the traditions of the old country in you by sending you back to the motherland every summer vacation for as far back as you could remember during your K-10 years will know what I’m talking about here. There is a tension inside all those like me, where it is nearly impossible to choose sides in situations like the one above. How does one choose between their birth mother and their adoptive mother? And even if you knew your “mother” was in the wrong, how could you not stand by her? God-forbid, if America ever went to war with your respective country of origin like the one reader eludes to above, who’s side would you choose? It is during times like these—as silly (as a beef ban) or as serious (as actual war) as it may be--that bring to the surface and really test perhaps a no greater defining characteristic of one’s loyalty and identity than to and of country.

For as long as I was old enough to know about the role race played in my identity, I have always felt this way: During the times I am in America, I am ultra-patriotic of my Asian motherland. And during the times I am visiting my motherland, I somehow, very naturally, switch sides to become ultra-patriotic of America.

What do you think? For any Asian American who’s lived in America long enough, do you see yourself as more Asian or more American?

 

12 comments

Comments

  • Jul 30, 2009 10:00am - Dorothy Hong
    I consider my self an American of Korean heritage. I noticed too it's extremely laborious and painful to disagree with majority white opinion in any group setting even if what they propose are not beneficial to such Asian in the throng. Ironically, once an Asian voicing difference or making her presence known forcing white folks to make room and reckon with such Asian often embarrasses and infuriates other Asian(s) who can easily step into the shoes of white crowd/project like Pavlovian reflex but again it takes intellectual/mental/moral rigor for other Asian bystanders to side with/honor such Asian b/c of tyrannical and grand retalitory measures white folks have typically exhibited to "set status quo" against "upitty yellow."
  • Apr 29, 2009 11:42pm - EC
    I don't think it's fair to generalize how Korean people feel about Korean Americans based on that one article - most likely written as an editorial.

    Now the beef issue - some people would say that it's silly, however, as Americans, we do not have all the information accessible to judge the gravity of the problem. What we see is some beef import issue, but for South Koreans it's more than that - politics, power, health, domestic governance by its leaders, and standing up for themselves not against Americans necessarily but their Korean leaders.

    Now, to answer your question, at this point in my life, I feel very Asian, American, and Korean. Three years ago, I would say that I felt more American than anything else culturally. Life experiences definitely change the way we see ourselves and it depends where you are in life. I'm very glad to have "found" my Korean and Asian heritage. I'm working on discovering more about the Hispanic culture, so I guess that makes me MULTICULTURAL.
  • Apr 29, 2009 11:31am - Paul Myoung
    Definitely Korean-American. These two terms are not mutually exclusive, and the typical question that brings about public debate and cyclical discourse is asking the "or" questions, and not the "and" questions.

    Being culturally diverse, racially sensitive, gender open-minded, socially concerned is what makes me American. I can't say the same for many of the Korean traditions that have passed down through my upbringing and my filial obligations to obey the wishes of my family. However, I do not resent this aspect, I see a hope in reflecting the change in how I choose to define the terms: Korean AND American.
  • Mar 12, 2009 7:40am - Clarence the Cauc
    I resided in Korea for over 25 years. I have a PhD in Korean Studies, worked at Korean research institutes, and functioned throughout society as a Korean. However, as the writer speaks of war, loyalty to the motherland (or some may say Fatherland) or loyalty to an adoptive land; well, in my opinion loyalty to self will ultimately determin where and what you are willing to "die" for.
    With regard to Kyopo in America and Koreans on the peninsula, as the clock ticks, values and cultures change. Koreans on the peninusla are not the Koreans of Chosun, or even Yushin Korea. Korean Americans tend to stop their watches at the time they depart from the Fatherland (or motherland) and assimulate, alculurate, and accommodate their new lives in the U.S. (and other countries as the case may be. So a divide between life on the peninusla and life abroad ensuses. The only thing permanent is change, and the more things change the more they stay the same.
  • Aug 24, 2008 11:23am - Julie
    I, myself never understood the big deal about having to identify oneself as Asian or Asian American. I came to America when I was very young and call America home for 28 yrs. When asked I say that I am Asian. Why wouldn't I? I am very proud to be Asian and feel very blessed and fortune to be here in America. It is only an issue or difficult choice if we make it.
  • Aug 7, 2008 9:49pm - Chen
    If being American means life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, then living as a Chinese American, Korean American, Japanese American, or European or African American, is all valid. Therefore, one can be American in personality, and Asian in character, especially since the freedom to do as you wish, allows for no specific definition as to what is American character.
  • Aug 7, 2008 12:37am - MC
    It really depends on the person. It could be quite complicated too. For me, I am an Asian American, I am also culturally very Chinese. In the meantime, I am neither American, nor Chinese. Sometimes I felt I am a mixture of both.
  • Jul 29, 2008 1:20am - Rick
    The whole identity issue I believe is more racial than nationality. Whether you're asian american or you're asian really doesnt mean anything other than the passport you carry, imo. Being asian american unfortunately is not quite the same as being european american, or black american. We are somehow perceived as foreigners no matter what in america. It's just the way it is for now. If you're asian than you're asian IMO.

    In any case, i think the whole idea of the country barriers is getting old. Hopefully those barriers will diminish in time. And hopefully the idea, 'of pointing a gun at someone' in the name of patriotism will also become history.. hey one can dream right.. but ultimately that must be.
  • Jul 17, 2008 11:01pm - Wendy L.
    I agree with Jeff. In the end, we are all human and we are all One. I never understood what is the big deal of identifying yourself as an Asian or an Asian American. I came to the US when I was 2 yrs old and I have no recollection of anything in Asia. However, I still consider myself as just being Asian. If someone were to ask me on the streets, I would refer myself to being Asian. Again, I do not see what is the big deal of being Asian or Asian American.
  • Jul 17, 2008 10:53am - KC
    I'm in between the 1.5 to 2.0 category. As proud as I am of my Korean heritage and feel that it definies my personality, I have been reminded time and again by other Koreans of my American side and that I am not Korean. In the end, I am a US citizen and have no plans in changing that. The JoongAng Ilbo quote is pretty ridiculous seeing that there is almost 30,000 US troops stationed in South Korea to help protect her.
  • Jun 23, 2008 5:12pm - Jeff
    It's very hard to distinguish between Asian and American. I'm proud to be Korean American. We have to remember that WE all are born under the same stars and bleed the same blood.

    At the end of the day, we are human, we are all ONE!
  • May 23, 2008 10:14am - William Yeung
    It is difficult to say if I am more Asian than American. I am proud to be an American but I want to keep up with my Asian heritage. I would like my children to be able to speak the same dialect. I would like to choose both. I don't understand why I have to choose sides. I am an Asian American.

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